This may change your marriage.
I recently watched this (free) workshop on counseling for healthy relationships. It will forever change how I present relationship communication in counseling sessions! It was incredible! I very much encourage you to check it out if you’ve had hurts in your marriage and want to work toward improved relationships (marriage and beyond).
According to the class description, “you show love to someone when you accurately determine the need of the moment and meet it. Dr. Elkins identifies and describes the top 12 commonly identified needs. He also suggests a pattern of communication to use to resolve a situation where one or more of these needs is not met.”